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Goodbye friends

Discussion in 'Miscellaneous Discussion' started by Lovefall, Apr 18, 2015.

  1. Wauspaus

    Wauspaus Active Member

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    Right so, I have talked a bit with you last night Lovefall. And I just want to point out that its not your fault, its something you cant help so you dont need to blame yourself for these things. I think giving yourself a bit more time and space to find your way is a good thing to do but I do hope that eventually you will take that step again and become more active in the community itself :)
     
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  2. Granny Rowan

    Granny Rowan Active Member

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    Never say never. Take a break, take a deep breath and look at what you and we will miss if you stop posting altogether.
    There will always be people who disagree with you, their views are not 'bad', they don't hate you they just add to the variety and stimulate conversation and ideas.
    There are also unfortunately also folk whose purpose in life would seem to be as a troll, ignore them, look to the positive feedbacks you have had, they far outweigh those from the saddos who need to get a life.
     
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  3. KikkiJikki

    KikkiJikki Well-Known Member Pro Users

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    Alex,

    Thanks for taking the time to explain your situation. I think I understand now and I can identify with you though your issues are not the same as my issues.

    I'm hopeful that after taking some solitary time you will be able to come back and interact at a level that works for you. The forum and the game is a better place with you active in the community.

    Regards,
    KikkiJikki
     
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  4. Lovefall

    Lovefall Deactivated User

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    Yeah, that was pretty much the reason why I decided to make this post. Normally, considering that I'm pretty much a "nobody" in this universe (and yeah Nobody's perfect - hahaha - joke) it would have been probably more appropriated, to just silently dissapear, but I was afraid that there may still be some people wondering if I'm Ok, wondering if it wasn't something wrong from which they did or said or, eventually, blame other people for that. That's why I wanted to post, to explain myself and to make sure that everyone knows that I'm OK (and just putting some distance) and that it's not anyone's fault for that, but mine. :)

    Once again thank you for your messages and best of luck both in and out of game.
     
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  5. OZtwo

    OZtwo Active Member

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    Just need to remember that you will have your ups and downs but at the end just don't let the game or anyone in the game get to you. If things seem to get out of control..just shut down the computer and take a good long RL walk and all will get better. -- I read somewhere anyway.
     
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  6. ArchAngel

    ArchAngel Active Member

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    Taking time off is never a bad thing. Look around, find your bearings and reassess your situation. If you need to talk to someone, reach out. Someone will be there. Even if you aren't a religious person, bending a knee and sending up a prayer will certainly not hurt.

    I wish you the best of luck.
     
  7. wournos

    wournos Active Member

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    Walks... outside. Sounds familiar somehow...
     
  8. spardax

    spardax Member

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    It is really sad to see you stop interacting with the community, I really liked to chat with you, as you were(are) one of the best in our overall excellent community.
    I usually also get smacked by my girl because sometimes I'm discussing something in game and I don't listen to her and i hate leaving discussions unfinished as well (So I more or less understand).
    I hope your goodbye is not permanent and only just a brief chill out moment, where you can recharge your batteries.

    We WILL! miss your cheerfulness, your spirit and your positive ideas and remarks, pls come back soon.

    My 2 PEC,
    John Frost Snow
     
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  9. Nor Alien

    Nor Alien Active Member

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    Insert hug smilie here. :happy:
     
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  10. Grizgal

    Grizgal Active Member

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    Its a real shame if you decide to stay away. You brought a fresh perspective and were keen to get stuck into everything. You imspired me to look into new areas of the game and try things I had not previously considered.

    Dont stay away too long!
     
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  11. SellNew

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    I'm sorry. A big hug and i wish you a good luck.
    If you'll ever need any help pm me and i promise i'll not let anything "on hold.
     
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  12. Jod

    Jod Well-Known Member

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    I haven't been in game much in the last week to catch up with you LF so I hope your doing ok.

    Thanks for explaining things,I get it now and will bear it in mind for the future.

    You can tell from the responses in here-tbh the kind of responses I would expect for someone who has been around for years and yet you've only been here a few weeks-that you have made a large and positive impact on a lot of people in a very short time so it would be a real shame to lose that.
    I completely understand you have to do it at your pace and in your way and now that you've explained it I think everyone who has had contact with you is more than happy to 'oblige' your needs.That doesnt happen for everyone.

    Another thing I notice is that even the lurkers felt the need to post and wish you well,now thats saying something :p

    You've got me on FL and you know you can bug me anytime for anything so please do ;)
     
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    NoBion New Member

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    I dont know you, from what people write here that certainly would not be bad thing if i did :)

    I just wanted to give you thumbs up for bringing this up, having to explain people about your personal issues is a big step. I got respect for that decision since the alternative is not logging in, or just beginning to ignore people (because you turn off chat). So while your situation is not neccesarily a good thing, the way you handle it should be your decision alone and while i am not sure its the best way to do it. you are atleast doing something and thats positive!
     
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